woke up at 10.30 am today...finally...been such a long time since i slp for so long. haha. was reading the past newspaper in order to keep up with the news...and i was reading this article about Mr. S. Rajanatham. yeah..i noe he had passed away recently...the article i was reading was about him and his deceased wife. a true love story between the two of them.

who can develop love in the midst of war? while one is fighting for his life at the battle field and the other one is waiting at the shore. when life and death are uncertain...will there be someone really able to tink of you instead of the safety of himself/herself. and mind you...that time they were still not official loh. its the kind of friendship...full of support...courage...prayers...for best of others instead of whispering sweet for nothings words. gerz out there...love need not be xpressed by words...it can also be xpressed with actions. if you guy or ger dun whisper sweet for nothings to you...its not he/she doesnt wan to. maybe they are just shy. and be thankful that they dun whisper sweet for nothing...at least this gave u a little assurance that they do not do so to other people also.

if words can really be xpressed thru words...wat will they be? flowers...chocolates...rings...gifts...all these are just material stuff....wats the purpose of this things if your other half is not even there for you? its not the gifts that we should treasure..its the time we spent together. so guys...wat gerz from you is not ur gifts..your flowers...your chocolates...but its you love and concern for them. if all the tings you ger wan is all the material stuff....u should really think wat went wrong man. haha. look at Mr. S. that time he cant even afford all these...but their love stay strong..till the day she passed away.

of course..it is not an excuse for the guys not to pamper their gerfrens yeah...at speciall occassions...anniversary....of course you should pamper them to show ur appreciation yeah. if u can afford it...do it...if u cant...the least u can do..is to be there for them.

i was reading the article. and i wan to cry. and i remember...about a case which mr. ferlin told us. its about a woman who took care of her husband for 25 years...bear in mind...her husband is unable to work due to the illness he has got. cant rmb the name..but its sumting...that....will caused to have relapse and you will not be able to control you body. meaning..u shit anywhere...u pee anywhere...your body can bend 180 degree....and u have cramps...basically you look like crap. no cure for this. she took care of him for 25 years...without complaints and grieves....mr. ferlin end the story with this sentence.

" if thats not love...so wat is it?"

that sentence has an impact on me...and thats one of the reason why i wan to take family law...its an area of law that is the nearest to humanity. u will be able to see...how this world of relationships actually...tragedies...love story hidden away in this fast moving and materialistic world.